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"It's not often that a truly original book on improving marriage comes along. This is one. Reading this book will help you see your relationship in a deeper, more balanced way, and show you practical new ways to make it fairer and more satisfying to both of you."

William J. Doherty, Ph.D, Professor of Family Social Science at the University of Minnesota and author of Take Back Your Marriage

"As I read this superb book about relationship, empathy and justice, I found myself thinking about many couples I have treated over the years. Each chapter contains compelling case histories, exercises, and very clearly and thoughtfully defined ideas that are powerful and achievable. This is a book that I will recommend to many patients."

Don-David Lusterman, Ph.D., ABPP, 2008 Recipient of the American Family Therapy Academy Lifetime Achievement Award

"For couples who love one another but keep hitting the wall of conflict and misunderstanding, Try to See it My Way is an invaluable resource to teach them the language of fairness and trustworthy behavior in order to get on the right relational track."

Terry Hargrave, Ph.D., Professor of Marriage and Family Therapy at Fuller Theological Seminary and author of Families and Forgiveness

"If you've ever felt unfairly treated by your partner, this book is a must read... Full of compelling ideas, clinically informed practical advice, and deep insight into how we understand and solve the ancient relationship problem of "what's fair?"

Janis Abrahms Spring, Ph.D. author of After the Affair and How Can I Forgive You?

"Holiday Blues Webinar"
Sponsored by the Melanoma International Foundation
December, 2011
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Intergenerational Family Processes
Council for Relationships
March 17, 2010 | Philadelphia, PA
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Try to SeeIt My Way: Beyond Communication to Fairness
The Smithsonian Associate Lecture Series
May 20, 2010 | Washington, DC
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Try to See It My Way: Being Fair in Love and Marriage
Kennedy Health Systems Public Lecture
May 21, 2010 | Camden, NJ
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Fairness in the Parent-Child Relationship
Family & Play Therapy Center
June 25, 2010 | Philadelphia, PA
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Financial Infidelity
B. Hibbs guest of Radio Times
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Beyond Right and Wrong To Fairness
Psychotherapy Networker
Sept/October issue
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TV/Radio

• December 12, 2011:

  On FOX 29 TV, Dr. Hibbs discusses, "What Did Dottie Sandusky Know?" Watch

• April 4, 2011:

  On FOX 29 TV, Dr. Hibbs discusses, "Do you really want to play cops and robbers with your kids?" Watch

• March 21, 2011:

  On FOX 29 TV, Dr. Hibbs discusses, "The Three-Year Glitch," and tips on how avoid having "love and cherish," turn into "annoyed and bored." Watch
  

• January 19, 2011:

  On NBC Philadelphia, Dr. Hibbs discusses tips on how to avoid online dating scams. Watch, Read Accompanying Article

• December 13, 2010:

  On NPR's Voices In The Family, Dr. Dan Gottlieb and Dr. Hibbs discuss how couples can "Fight Less, Love More". Listen

• June 28 2010:

  On NPR's Voices In The Family, Dr. Dan Gottlieb and Dr. Hibbs discuss "What's Happening to Long-Term Marriages?". Listen

• March 26th, 2010:

  Chat with Women, Seattle, WA, Pam and Rochelle interview Dr. Hibbs. Read & Listen

• Dec 21, 2009:

  StayHappilyMarried.com interviews Dr. Hibbs. Read & Listen

• Sept 18, 2009:

  Dr. Jeff Low interviews Dr. Hibbs on The Relationship Show on KSVY, Sonoma, California. Listen

• July 6, 13 & 22, 2009:

  Marty Moss-Coane interviews Dr. Hibbs on the topic of financial infidelity. Listen

• May 31 and February 9, 2009:

  On NPR's Voices In The Family, Dr. Dan Gottlieb and Dr. Hibbs discuss her recently published book, Try to See It My Way: Being Fair in Love and Marriage. Listen

• April 4, 2009:

  Mary Jones interviews Dr. Hibbs on the Mary Jones, Talk of Connecticut Show. Listen

• March 30, 2009:

  Scott Cluthe interviews Dr. Hibbs on Postively Incorrect! Listen

• March 27, 2009:

  Guest of radio host Armand DiMele of The Positive Mind.

• March 6, 2009:

  NBC-TV, The 10 Show, 11:00 a.m. Watch

• March 3, 2009:

  Guest of Deborah Harper, director of psychjourney.com. Listen

• November 21, 2008:

  Dr. Hibbs answers questions on her forthcoming book on WTRC am1340 radio, Indiana. Listen

• June 6, 2007 Broadcast:

  National Public Radio: April 9 ,2007: Siblings: Adult Children, Adult Relationships. Panelist, Live Forum.

Articles

• Love After 50

  
  Philadelphia Inquirer, February 12, 2010
  Summary:Dr. Hibbs is quoted in an article by reporter, Sally Friedman, on the strengths older partners bring to love the second time around. Read more...

• Beyond Right and Wrong To Fairness

  
  Psychotherapy Networker, Sept/Oct, 2009
  Summary: Many couples get caught up in a struggle to prove who's "right." When a couple's energy is spent on winning, no one is motivated to be fair. How do you break that impasse and restore trust? Read more...

• Nestpert

  
  The Nest Magazine, Summer, 2009
  Summary: B. HIbbs is the "Nestpert" on work issues that can sabotage your marriage, and how to deal with it. (p. 28 of The Nest Magazine) Subscribe to The Nest Magazine...

• March 5, 2009:

  PENGUIN BOOK GROUP releases: Try to See It My Way: Being Fair in Love and Marriage. Read an excerpt from the Introduction...

• April 2009:

  Cosmo Magazine, quoted in article by Victoria Lowe.
  Summary: What does it mean when your boyfriend doesn't compliment you?

• Crush Control

  
  Women's Health Magazine, March 2009
  Summary: Even couples in committed relationships develop crushes on colleagues, friends, even strangers. When that happens in your relationship, how do you understand the meaning of an infatuation and what do you do about it? Read more...

• How to Compromise as a Couple

  
  Redbook Magazine, March, 2009
  Summary: Four important tips on how to give your relationship a fairness checkup and learn to establish what's fair between you. Read more...

• Philadelphia Psychologist Pens Book on Fairness in Relationship

  
  The Philadelphia Bulletin, Feb, 2009
  Summary: A glowing review of Try to See It My Way. Read more...

• Just like kids, Spouses Have to Play Fair

  
  The Philadelphia Inquirer, Jan, 2009
  Summary: Some arguments in marriage are endless. Whether it's how fast he drives, how late you are, how much one saves, the other spends.Then there are the "Big Five" problems that top the chart of what couples argue about. How to fairly resolve your differences? Read more...

Coming Soon

• Coming in Paperback!

  
  Paperback edition of Try to See It My Way, March 2, 2010 - Order Now

• Coming to Poland!

  
  Try to See It My Way translated and published in Poland soon!

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